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 Valefor.Sehachan
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2013-01-21 15:07:28
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Don't ever be quick to judge people. That's all I want to say, to anyone.

Vulnerability can come from many sources and emotional defenses can take sometimes weird and illogical paths. But they're still ways to defend the self.

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By Bismarck.Narshee 2013-01-21 15:07:42
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My sister beat up my 6'4" 210ish lb bro in law once cause they both got drunk and he pissed her off :| it was kinda funny to watch >.>;

Edit: she's about 5'2 and barely weighs anything xD
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By Asura.Bluespoons 2013-01-21 15:08:31
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She started hitting her husband back a few times, but that made him super beat the dog ***out of her so she let off it.


idc if it's a woman hitting a guy or a guy hitting a woman, you don't *** do it.

Ovr and I beat up on each other all the time, but it's horseplay and we know it. There are no bruises, there is no anger, it's laughing and wrestling around. Though he wrestled in high school so usually it's just me in a chicken wing, begging him to stop tickling me so I don't pee.
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By Ramuh.Urial 2013-01-21 15:08:44
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Siren.Kalilla said: »
Some people are just fking crazy. I don't understand what frame of mind you'd have to be in to beat the person you love out of anger.

I just don't get it.
I told her what the safe word was.
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"Say 'Eyjafjallajökull' if it gets too intense."
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By Bismarck.Narshee 2013-01-21 15:09:36
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Asura.Bluespoons said: »
She started hitting her husband back a few times, but that made him super beat the dog ***out of her so she let off it.


idc if it's a woman hitting a guy or a guy hitting a woman, you don't *** do it.

Ovr and I beat up on each other all the time, but it's horseplay and we know it. There are no bruises, there is no anger, it's laughing and wrestling around. Though he wrestled in high school so usually it's just me in a chicken wing, begging him to stop tickling me so I don't pee.
I hear once you have a baby you up the chances of peeing yourself :| or at least that's what I hear
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By Asura.Bluespoons 2013-01-21 15:09:45
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So bad, Uri lol
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By Odin.Eikechi 2013-01-21 15:09:49
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Asura.Bluespoons said: »
Suppose I'll just leave it alone. I'll stand by what I said, I'll have nothing to do with her. She's family, my sister, so I do feel like it's my problem too, but worrying about her when she isn't going to change is just gonna give me an ulcer and make my baby a spaz... more of a spaz...

Thanks for the help guys, you really did make me feel better.

First and foremost though Spoons, DO NOT STRESS YOURSELF OUT TOO MUCH WHILE PREGNANT. Stress is horrible for the body.
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By Leviathan.Catnipthief 2013-01-21 15:10:12
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Ramuh.Urial said: »
Siren.Kalilla said: »
Some people are just fking crazy. I don't understand what frame of mind you'd have to be in to beat the person you love out of anger.

I just don't get it.
I told her what the safe word was.
>:|

"Say 'Eyjafjallajökull' if it gets too intense."


Seems too easy, need a better safe word.
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By Ramuh.Urial 2013-01-21 15:10:25
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Asura.Bluespoons said: »
So bad, Uri lol
No one knows how to say that volcano name in Iceland...no one.
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2013-01-21 15:10:41
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Odin.Headstrong said: »
Caitsith.Zahrah said: »
Valefor.Sehachan said: »
It's not a matter of intelligence anyway...some people have psychological problems and those can be beyond self-control.

They like to be the perpetual victim rather than nut up? Like I said, some people are just masochists, or they love the attention they get from being in constant danger and the comfort they receive from their peers. Yes, that is a psychological problem.
Well some people honestly believe they don't deserve any better or wouldn't be able to get anything better :/ Or got so used to it that they actually think it's normal.. but hey he can be sweet too.. he must really love me

I agree with that, but the anecdote I posted earlier is my only experience with domestic abuse. We came to the conclusion that she wanted people to rally around her. She had a nice BF later, then went back to the beater. Then, after we graduated moved on to the next one who beat her, and relished in having a shoulder to cry on.

If we all met up at a bar or restaurant guess what subject monopolized the conversation? The phone calls to everyone and their mother too. Sad, but she was cut from the herd.
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By Carbuncle.Skulloneix 2013-01-21 15:11:20
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Bismarck.Narshee said: »
My sister beat up my 6'4" 210ish lb bro in law once cause they both got drunk and he pissed her off :| it was kinda funny to watch >.>;

Edit: she's about 5'2 and barely weighs anything xD
AWESOME. /swoons for your sis
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By Bismarck.Misao 2013-01-21 15:11:24
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my cousin is usually beat up by his younger sister.... its funny.
my aunt gets pissed cause my cousin addresses her little sister with more respect than her. lol

cousin: 20
lil cousin: 14
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By Bismarck.Magnuss 2013-01-21 15:11:32
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Ramuh.Urial said: »
Asura.Bluespoons said: »
So bad, Uri lol
No one knows how to say that volcano name in Iceland...no one.
Fjrea;lkkllajr;kljqw;eklrjjrqewjjrjrjej
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By Asura.Vyre 2013-01-21 15:11:38
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Asura.Bluespoons said: »
Suppose I'll just leave it alone. I'll stand by what I said, I'll have nothing to do with her. She's family, my sister, so I do feel like it's my problem too, but worrying about her when she isn't going to change is just gonna give me an ulcer and make my baby a spaz... more of a spaz...

Thanks for the help guys, you really did make me feel better.

First and foremost though Spoons, DO NOT STRESS YOURSELF OUT TOO MUCH WHILE PREGNANT. Stress is horrible for the body.
This. This so much. Of course, now you might stress about stressing, but hopefully Samson will start kicking towards the direction of your butt. Watch out! HE HAS SUPER SAMSON STRENGTH!
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By Asura.Bluespoons 2013-01-21 15:11:59
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Bismarck.Narshee said: »
Asura.Bluespoons said: »
She started hitting her husband back a few times, but that made him super beat the dog ***out of her so she let off it.


idc if it's a woman hitting a guy or a guy hitting a woman, you don't *** do it.

Ovr and I beat up on each other all the time, but it's horseplay and we know it. There are no bruises, there is no anger, it's laughing and wrestling around. Though he wrestled in high school so usually it's just me in a chicken wing, begging him to stop tickling me so I don't pee.
I hear once you have a baby you up the chances of peeing yourself :| or at least that's what I hear

You have no idea. It's not even just after either lol once they get big enough, they rest on your pee bag.

On a positive note, 5 months today, bros. And we still have nothing in the nursery except the guest bed and 32 ate up soda bottles the dog likes to chew on.
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By Siren.Kalilla 2013-01-21 15:12:17
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Ramuh.Urial said: »
Siren.Kalilla said: »
Some people are just fking crazy. I don't understand what frame of mind you'd have to be in to beat the person you love out of anger.

I just don't get it.
I told her what the safe word was.
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"Say 'Eyjafjallajökull' if it gets too intense."
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By Bismarck.Leneth 2013-01-21 15:12:34
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@Bluespoons
Don't know about america but I guess it is the same as here.
There are several organisations specialised in these matters who provide free help. They might give you good advices.

Also there might be a local one at your sisters area who could build up a contact to her. Contact with other persons normally helps out the most.
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2013-01-21 15:13:25
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Bismarck.Narshee said: »
I hear once you have a baby you up the chances of peeing yourself :| or at least that's what I hear

So much peeing!

Odin.Eikechi said: »
First and foremost though Spoons, DO NOT STRESS YOURSELF OUT TOO MUCH WHILE PREGNANT. Stress is horrible for the body.

This!
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2013-01-21 15:13:29
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Bismarck.Narshee said: »
My sister beat up my 6'4" 210ish lb bro in law once cause they both got drunk and he pissed her off :| it was kinda funny to watch >.>;

Edit: she's about 5'2 and barely weighs anything xD
Reminds me of roleplay battles training I once saw at a comicon. You know the kind they do with foam swords.

On one side a little girl(as little as me for reference), who never did it before. Other side a big guy with a LotR shirt that says "I did this everyday of my life".

Judge explains rules and signals start.

He gets into the perfect battle position.

She charges at him screaming and starts to beat him brutally and repeatedly until he huddles up on the ground with arms on his head.

And she continued even after the judge said they were done, they had to take her away forcefully.
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By Ramuh.Urial 2013-01-21 15:14:19
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Bismarck.Magnuss said: »
Ramuh.Urial said: »
Asura.Bluespoons said: »
So bad, Uri lol
No one knows how to say that volcano name in Iceland...no one.
Fjrea;lkkllajr;kljqw;eklrjjrqewjjrjrjej
One of the best parts in an already hysterical movie.
<3 Eurotrip

Siren.Kalilla said: »
Ramuh.Urial said: »
Siren.Kalilla said: »
Some people are just fking crazy. I don't understand what frame of mind you'd have to be in to beat the person you love out of anger.

I just don't get it.
I told her what the safe word was.
>:|

"Say 'Eyjafjallajökull' if it gets too intense."
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What...
Just sayin'
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By Asura.Bluespoons 2013-01-21 15:14:35
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We've looked into everything from having her committed to calling the cops. She's an adult that can make her own choices, so psych ignores us. Cops won't do ***because we don't witness the abuse and she won't do anything about it. She says he doesn't hit her and won't press charges, so nothing gets done.
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By Carbuncle.Skulloneix 2013-01-21 15:15:04
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Asura.Bluespoons said: »
pee bag.
You have the BEST names for things spoons
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By Ramuh.Sagittario 2013-01-21 15:15:40
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I love foam stuff.
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2013-01-21 15:16:48
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Bismarck.Leneth said: »
@Bluespoons
Don't know about america but I guess it is the same as here.
There are several organisations specialised in these matters who provide free help. They might give you good advices.

Also there might be a local one at your sisters area who could build up a contact to her. Contact with other persons normally helps out the most.

She could go straight to the local battered women's shelter and/or get a restraining order, but...Yeah...That's purely up to the individual.
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By Siren.Kalilla 2013-01-21 15:17:06
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*adblocks sagi's avi*
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By Bismarck.Magnuss 2013-01-21 15:17:33
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Ramuh.Urial said: »
Bismarck.Magnuss said: »
Ramuh.Urial said: »
Asura.Bluespoons said: »
So bad, Uri lol
No one knows how to say that volcano name in Iceland...no one.
Fjrea;lkkllajr;kljqw;eklrjjrqewjjrjrjej
One of the best parts in an already hysterical movie.
<3 Eurotrip
So you're telling me that I just quoted a movie that I've never seen? Freaky...
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By Leviathan.Catnipthief 2013-01-21 15:19:20
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Siren.Kalilla said: »
*adblocks sagi's avi*



should seen my avatar this morni-


actually i'll just go change it now :3
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By Asura.Bluespoons 2013-01-21 15:19:29
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Euro Trip was pretty amazing.
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By Ramuh.Sagittario 2013-01-21 15:20:20
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I love coke foam the most.
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By Bismarck.Narshee 2013-01-21 15:21:24
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