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 Fenrir.Niniann
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2011-08-08 11:50:48
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Quetzalcoatl.Uptempo said:
If he doesn't want to have sex who cares means more single girls to around :D

I couldn't do it myself either if i was with a lass who didn't want sex she would be told to f off for sure.

Well, true, lol. I just don't see how he can complain about not having lasting relationships when he refuses to have sex. It's pretty much a no-brainer.

You can try to look for someone who's not into it also, but the chances of finding someone you really like who's also asexual is going to be pretty hard. That attribute alone pretty much cuts out anyone ever.
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2011-08-08 11:56:49
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Quetzalcoatl.Uptempo said:
Totally agree would be veryhard to find a girl or guy to go along with it. Funny thing is Volkom is my friend, used to be on vent together a lot i had no idea of this im honestly shocked.

Since he's your friend, tell him to man up/take one for the team. :x He might even like it!
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2011-08-08 11:58:53
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Quetzalcoatl.Uptempo said:
Oh im going to try soon as i see him on game haha.

Good! I can't let these sex-haters roam free on XIAH on my watch! D:<
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-08-08 12:00:29
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no sex ever? :| how u do this? lol
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By Phoenix.Sehachan 2011-08-08 12:01:17
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Maybe he just doesn't feel comfortable if he's not sure he's with the right person. There are many people that think that way.

But anyway, better wait for his response before judging.
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2011-08-08 12:03:06
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Phoenix.Sehachan said:
Maybe he just doesn't feel comfortable if he's not sure he's with the right person. There are many people that think that way.

But anyway, better wait for his response before judging.

I can understand that. He's making it sound like he doesn't want sex ever. Besides you should be able to figure out whether or not you want to have sex with someone within a month or so. :/ It's pretty easy to tell someone "I'm not ready yet".
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By volkom 2011-08-08 12:15:50
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Phoenix.Sehachan said:
Maybe he just doesn't feel comfortable if he's not sure he's with the right person.
this
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-08-08 12:17:44
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volkom said:
Phoenix.Sehachan said:
Maybe he just doesn't feel comfortable if he's not sure he's with the right person.
this
are you very young? o:
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2011-08-08 12:21:14
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volkom said:
Phoenix.Sehachan said:
Maybe he just doesn't feel comfortable if he's not sure he's with the right person.
this

And it's taking you months to figure this out? Hell it shouldn't even take you more than a few weeks! You're doing this horribly wrong. If you're not comfortable enough by the time they dump you, you weren't right for each other anyway. They've more often than not given you adequate time. I'd give you a month, personally. If you couldn't decide by then, not worth it. :x
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2011-08-08 12:22:30
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Asura.Chuuuuu said:
volkom said:
Phoenix.Sehachan said:
Maybe he just doesn't feel comfortable if he's not sure he's with the right person.
this
are you very young? o:

If he's that young he probably shouldn't be doing it period. :x
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-08-08 12:25:18
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i shouldnt be putting any input anyway lol im still disgusted by sex :P /runs away
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2011-08-08 12:27:58
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Asura.Chuuuuu said:
i shouldnt be putting any input anyway lol im still disgusted by sex :P /runs away

lmao

It's ok you'll find your Pikachu knight someday!
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-08-08 12:29:40
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Fenrir.Niniann said:
Asura.Chuuuuu said:
i shouldnt be putting any input anyway lol im still disgusted by sex :P /runs away

lmao

It's ok you'll find your Pikachu knight someday!
then we will have hot pikachu sex all night and day :D
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2011-08-08 12:30:04
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Asura.Chuuuuu said:
then we will have hot pikachu sex all night and day :D

>:3 Pikaaa pikaaaaa~
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By volkom 2011-08-08 12:31:23
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Fenrir.Niniann said:
volkom said:
Phoenix.Sehachan said:
Maybe he just doesn't feel comfortable if he's not sure he's with the right person.
this

And it's taking you months to figure this out? Hell it shouldn't even take you more than a few weeks! You're doing this horribly wrong. If you're not comfortable enough by the time they dump you, you weren't right for each other anyway. They've more often than not given you adequate time. I'd give you a month, personally. If you couldn't decide by then, not worth it. :x
well i'm 21 but i think its the kind of girls i was going out with. i'm more interested in having a relationship and doing things together(going to the movies, having dinner together, going to the mall or something, etc) instead of getting bugged constantly about coming over sex 5~8 times a week. and also during dinner or something when we're talking about whatever, seemed like there wasn't really anything to talk about =/
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By Fenrir.Nightfyre 2011-08-08 12:35:00
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It's entirely possible for sex to be only a part of the relationship instead of the primary focus.
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By volkom 2011-08-08 12:37:19
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Fenrir.Nightfyre said:
It's entirely possible for sex to be only a part of the relationship instead of the primary focus.
yeah, but it seemed like they always wanted it to be the main focus though =/ so its been like >_>
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-08-08 12:38:44
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volkom said:
Fenrir.Nightfyre said:
It's entirely possible for sex to be only a part of the relationship instead of the primary focus.
yeah, but it seemed like they always wanted it to be the main focus though =/ so its been like >_>
thats weird lol i always find guys that sex is their primary thing lol :P
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By volkom 2011-08-08 12:39:26
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Asura.Chuuuuu said:
volkom said:
Fenrir.Nightfyre said:
It's entirely possible for sex to be only a part of the relationship instead of the primary focus.
yeah, but it seemed like they always wanted it to be the main focus though =/ so its been like >_>
thats weird lol i always find guys that sex is their primary thing lol :P
there's a lot of girls like that up at my college
 
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2011-08-08 12:41:04
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well i'm 21 but i think its the kind of girls i was going out with. i'm more interested in having a relationship and doing things together(going to the movies, having dinner together, going to the mall or something, etc) instead of getting bugged constantly about coming over sex 5~8 times a week. and also during dinner or something when we're talking about whatever, seemed like there wasn't really anything to talk about =/

Then it's more of an issue with the girls you're dating, not refusing to have sex with them. @@; Date girls that don't suck? :/
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-08-08 12:41:43
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i tried younger, older, in the end they seem to just want in my pants or my boobs lol :P
 
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-08-08 12:45:37
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life is cruel lol they place the guys who i fit with far away so i cant see them :| then put all the *** near me lol
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By Fenrir.Vazerus 2011-08-08 12:47:44
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boobs are pretty awesome, I'm not going to lie xD
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By Phoenix.Sehachan 2011-08-08 12:49:43
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I'll just say three things on the matter and without being indiscrete asking specific questions.

1. Never force yourself to do things you don't feel comfortable doing.

2. That being said, try to satisfty your partner's needs. Both of you should be happy anyway.

3. Sex is fun and pleasant, let yourself go.
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By Fenrir.Niniann 2011-08-08 13:27:24
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volkom said:
instead of getting bugged constantly about coming over sex 5~8 times a week.

Fenrir.Nightfyre said:
It's entirely possible for sex to be only a part of the relationship instead of the primary focus.


Also it's entirely possible to want sex 5~8 times a week and have it not be your primary focus. As Night said--it's only part of the relationship. >_>;

Phoenix.Sehachan said:
I'll just say three things on the matter and without being indiscrete asking specific questions.

1. Never force yourself to do things you don't feel comfortable doing.

2. That being said, try to satisfy your partner's needs. Both of you should be happy anyway.

3. Sex is fun and pleasant, let yourself go.

This. I'm not telling you to have sex with someone you don't like, but if you really like them... you really should do it to make them happy if you're comfortable with it. Even if you're not like zomgsexyay. Also don't act like they're forcing you to and be all miserable during it. I swear to god that's the most irritating ***ever.
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